Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Owning The Ankara

Hi all

While window shopping yesterday, i saw these very nice 'ankara' shoes in Aldo. I immediately felt pride seeing a thing that is known as proudly naija on dispaly in the streets of New York.

So i even proudly took a picture of my tie and dye bag which is also proudly naija, by the way :)

But hold on,....is Ankara a Naija commodity? I know we wear it a lot but i would really like to know the origin. Tye and Dye is from Ogun State RIGHT?!

Enjoy the pics!!! Poudly Naija




My Patch Bag (Tye Dye and Leather ;)

Beyone ...rocking it

The Easy Ride Clutch by Rebecca Minkoff

Robin by Jimmy Choo


The Garbo Satchel by Be&D

Superlight Aquilone by Bottega Veneta

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Home Away From Home



There are a lot of things  that make many of us qualify to be tagged "Nigerians in Diaspora". It might be the way we speak, the way we dress, the food we eat or even the jobs we find ourselves doing. Many times, we take pride in knowing that we can retain a certain degree of our "africanness" without having the white culture polluting what we call morals and values.

I went for a wedding party today and it was amusing to watch dollar bills were sprayed over the new couple and how people with law degrees gyrated to the music blaring from the speakers with the voice of Obesere in the air. Never mind the fact that these people would turn their noses at people who subcribed to such brand of music back home.

Well, back home things were different and now all we want is just a little Naijaness to get through the cold cold days ahead of us. I smiled at a man changing a hundred dollar bills into one dollar bills, i even relished the aroma of moin moin wrapped in foil because they couldnt find the banana leaves to tie the delicacy.

I will probably share more of my perception later tomorrow. I have to sleep now. What a partyyy!





Saturday, March 19, 2011

Sweet Tooth




Got a sweet Tooth?
 Hi everyone...someone...anyone

It's official! I'm a full time blogger now and im loving it!!!

Now, im verrry impressed with the way Nigerian musicians seem to be taking the industry by storm. the opertaive word there being "industry". What i dont get- yet- is their thirst and desire to become agents of change with PDP. I know Music is a strong force and i applaud their decison to "stand up and be counted" but why have they turned themselves to politicians over night. I cant help but wonder how much the PDP would have paid someone like Stephanie Okereke to stand up on a campaign stage in Bayelsa screaming at the top of her lungs "Goodluck and Sambo 2011!!!!"
And i dont even want to mention Kanayo 'Ohh' Kanayo's political ambitions. I mean ...how much do they have to pay these people to lick asses and kiss dirty soles? Puleeezeeeeee

Using celebrities to campaign is the cheapest trick in the book. Just because 2011 made ir popular doesnt mean i'll vote for the person who was interviewed in the "koko mansion" oops...Aso rock.

I cant wait for the contoversial presidential debate to begin (NN24 or not!) cos im not giving anyone my vote under the influence of sweet talk or sweet biscuits!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

So long nappy hair

I'm guilty of many things. one of which is not updating my blog as often as i used to. i think life caught up with me in the race but im determined ti take the lead anyway.

So....i decided to 'un nap' my nappy hair yesterday. i dont know why but um glad i did otherwise i wouldnt have anything to blog about now! here's a pic of my nappy hair. i like to think of this picture as a sort of memoir. So if i ever get to the point when i hate relaxed hair, i'll look at the pic and congratulate myself for staying nappy for 10 months! for enduring the tangleed bits and comb tru sessions.

no, im not a coward as many of my nappy hair sistas probably think. im on an adventure with my hair. and hey who says its important to have nappy hair anyway? or relaxed? or texturized? I am not my hair :)

so nice to be back ;)

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Black Girls Don’t Blush

We were supposed to have lunch that afternoon. I wore a black tank top and a bright red skirt.

I didn’t look too desperate

You wore an aqua green shirt, like the color of the sea. My best friend would call it sky blue however.

Sky blue...aqua green…whatever

You said something nice about my top. If I was white I would have blushed all the way down to my neck with your eyes dancing all over my chest.

‘Tell me, do you play chess?’ I had my reasons for asking.

‘Chess is for losers, I spend my time wisely’

Oh well, I thought, what an irony.

You told me other things that made me laugh anyway. Some adult jokes, some funny pranks. My Mother would have a fit! But I am an adult. Seventeen years on this planet qualifies me. So there you go.

Our date crawled on like a caterpillar and turned into a moth when I felt your foot rubbing my thighs under the table. Oh no! It was only our second date and now I have to stop starting to like you.

Monday, April 5, 2010

The Philosophy of Childbirth

I scream, I groan

I curse, I moan

It’s not easy no doubt

But when it slips out

I smile with warmth engulfing my whole body

This is what it must feel like, to howl

The work of nature is big, brown and sturdy

It stares back at me from the toilet bowl

I’m a philosopher

And I just gave birth to shit.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Terry Tempest Williams

Just got this from a close friend and i couldnt resist the temptation to post it!!!

A manifesto, by author Terry Tempest Williams in a book on 'Creative Non-Fiction'

I write to make peace with the things I cannot control.
I write to create fabric in a world that often appears black and white.
I write to discover. I write to uncover. I write to meet my ghosts. I write to begin a dialogue.
I write to imagine things differently and in imagining things
differently perhaps the world will change.
I write to honor beauty. I write to correspond with my friends.
I write as a daily act of improvisation. I write because it creates my composure.
I write against power and for democracy.
I write myself out of my nightmares and into my dreams.
I write in a solitude born out of community.
I write to the questions that shatter my sleep. I write to the answers that make me complacent.
I write to remember. I write to forget. I write to the music that opens my heart. I write to quell the pain.
I write with the patience of melancholy in winter. I write because it allows me to confront that which I do not know.
I write as an act of faith. I write as an act of slowness.
I write to record what I love in the face of loss. I write because it makes me less fearful of death. I write as an exercise in pure joy.
I write as one who walks on the surface of a frozen river beginning to melt.
I write out of my anger and into my passion.
I write from the stillness of night anticipating -- always anticipating.
I write to listen. I write out of silence. I write to soothe the voices shouting inside me, outside me, all around me.
I write because I believe in words.
I write because it is a dance with paradox.
I write because you can play on the page like a child left alone in
sand.
I write because it is the way I take long walks.
I write because I believe it can create a path in darkness.
I write with a knife, carving each word from the generosity of trees.
I write as ritual.
I write out of my inconsistencies. I write with the colors of memory.
I write as a witness to what I have seen. I write as witness to what I imagine.
I write by grace and grit.
I write for the love of ideas.
I write for the surprise of a sentence.
I write with the belief of alchemists.
I write knowing I will always fail. I write knowing words always fall short.
I write knowing I can be killed by own words, stabbed by syntax, crucified by understanding and misunderstanding.
I write past the embarassment of exposure.
I trust nothing especially myself and slide head first into the familiar abyss of doubt and humiliation and threaten to push the delete button on my way down, or madly erase each line, pick up the paper and rip it into shreds -- and then I realise it doesn't matter, words are always a gamble, words are splinters from cut glass.
I write because it is dangerous, a bloody risk, like love, to form the words, to say the words, to touch the source, to be touched, to reveal how vulnerable we are, how transient.
I write as though I am whispering in the ear of the one I love.