Thursday, August 18, 2011

When someone we love goes away

I've always wondered what it felt like for people who lose their loved ones. I didn't have to wonder anymore when my lovely aunt passed away yesterday.

I am still in shock and can't believe 3 days ago was the last time i would ever hear her voice..and no, i will not be seeing her again, not in this life.

We cry because our loss hurts. For afterall, it is OUR loss. The person we weep for is in a better and would rather we celebrate.

Rest in peace Aunty. You will be sorely missed.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Weird things people do with Facebook



Facebook is not just a social media anymore, its now a 'toasting' media. May the smoothest talker win. i have many grudges with the site but like one of those necessary evils, i cant avoid taking a peek at people's profiles once in a while. For some, its a journal, with details (sordid and mild) of their private lives for all to view and "like".

For others, Facebook is a medium of attack. If someone offends you, i heard it's more effective to state the offence on your facebook status while everyone else wonders who could be owing you money or who broke your heart. This tactic, i heard it is supposed to make the guilty 'friend' crawl back to you or seeth in anger while plotting their own status attack! Intersteing heh? see why they've got most of us hooked? Some people (like me) are addicted to gist and can even be described as pathological people watchers. We love to find out who just had a baby and who the baby looks like. We love to 'like' people's wedding photos and 'awwwww' over pictures of couples in their intimate moments.

Some people's fingers are so sticky on the like button that even if Osama Bin Laden posted something like this ' I just had a wonderful time flying two planes into the world trade center buildings',  I am sure he will get someone to 'like' the update. Who in the world likes those crazy updates?

Now, back to facebook as a tool for toasting. I received a message on facebook that quotes:

"you seem to be a doctor. i am sick and my head jst started spinning thinking of u since last night what can i do to u quench it?"

This is just one out of a couple of messages i get once in a while from people who actually have pictures on their profile.(seriously?!!) At first i thought it couldn't be anything but spam but then again...you never know. Crazy world we live in.



Monday, June 13, 2011

Busy Bee

I have not been blogging much these days. In fact, i have not been doing much of anything but being busy! Yea...my lasagna making days are over..gone with my weekends! If you can guess by now, i'm now a working class chic. lol (i wish) But anyways, i now have a job besides staying home experimenting with recipes and blogging of course! Soooo.... in between all that and moving into a new apartment, ive been busy.

Its not an easy job but im glad it pays. Woman must wack na (abi no be so?) Anyways, thats not an excuse if i intend to be a writer someday in the future i must write!

So here i am in McDonalds (yea i dont have internet access yet) blogging. I just hope i don't get huge on the food here all in the name of blogging!

So on and on i blab....How are u guys? any gist for me (i like to amuse myself sometimes, indulge me please)

I read Annie John by Jamaica Kincaid and i think its simply fantastic. Books like that leave me miserable cos i cant help wishing i could write as good as people like Ms Kincaid. Anyways, i totally recommend the book and will be back for a full review. Also currently reading Breath, Eyes, Memory by Edwidge Danticat. Two reviews coming up soon.

Cheers!




Saturday, June 4, 2011

When Friends are Scarce



A poem for my very special reader (s)
You know yourself
Yea...you
This is for you


This is for you dear friend
You who chose to stand by me
When world turned its back
This is for you mi amore.

You who remembers not to forget
Every single memory we made
In a place where all we had was love
This is for you mi amore.

For making me smile when i didnt want to
Telling me the truth when it made me mad
Laughing at my silly ways
This is for you mi amore.

I choose not to forget you
Your voice that still brings comfort
Strangely so after all these years
Nuestro amor nunca morirĂ¡.



Thursday, May 26, 2011

Books I must Read This Year!!!

So apart from making meat pies and lasagna, i have been obsessively buying books (window shopping or not! thank you) and reading them! I wish i did more writing though but i wont beat myself up about it. No, not today!

So here's a list of inspiring authors i think you should read with some of their wonderful books

Enjoy and feel free to order online or borrow at your local library.


This is an intriguing one about a girl trying to understand so much about herself and the world around her. Cant wait to finish it!

Another book by Jamaica Kincaid. I love the Cover pic :)

Im going to read this because of Nathan's expression when he described his inspiration in class.

I wanna read Monica Ali's Brick lane because i listened to her on the NewYorker's fiction podcast and loved her insight.

Edwidge Danticat oh Edwidge Danticat...why havent i read this yet?cant wait for my my order ooo

I really loved reading a story from this collection...Disguised.

Jackie Kay oh Jackie Kay my Ibo sister. Can't wait to read this. She is witty, fun and sooo poetic.

This is a MUST have!

Another Monica Ali book.Dont u just love the cover? Makes u want to know what its about.

Thank God for the New Yorker Fiction podcasts....now i cant get enough of Jhumpa Lahiri :0

Friday, May 20, 2011

BlackBerry Craze



Juliet: hey Susan, i just got my blackberry , ooooh .... i'll buy my pin next week.
Susan: U try oooo ! me don dash jane my own pin


Juliet : why????
Susan: because blackberry don tire me, na BB i dey use now
Juliet: is ur BB samsung or Nokia
Susan: no, its sony ericsson
Juliet: okay just give me your pin so i can call you..
Susan: eeeyahhh...am sorry, i left my pin at home. you knw its not safe walking around with your pin, e fit chook you for belle


Juliet: aaaaahhh, its true ooooo




Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Making Meat Pies

Boredom has a way of bringing out the best (or worst) in us. It all depends on what we choose. Although i have to admit that making the right choice isn't always easy but anything is possible.

So lately, i've been staying at home doing nothing but read, read, eat, eat and you'd think i would put some time into blogging (ha ha ha).

At least i'm doing things worth blogging about...not sure anyone would want to read about everything though. So let me entice you with my Meat Pie recipe and pictures.

Needless to say that making meatpies isn't exactly as easy as a piece of pie (forgive the pun) I tried it once thinking i'd just mix all the ingredients and scoffing the measurements. Well it turns out i made meat stones instead!

So yesterday, i gave it another try and im posting the recipe/pictures for people like me with enough time on their hands. Expect more recipes from this blog if i dont procastinate!



Meat Pie Recipe (Naija Style)

Meat Filling


-small potatoes, diced and cooked (to save time, use frozen hash brown potato cubes)

-lean ground beef (or chicken, or turkey)

-frozen mixed vegetables, cooked (I use the peas, carrots and corn mix)

-onion diced

-red and green sweet peppers, diced

- seasonings (salt, black pepper, onion powder, garlic powder, knorr/maggie etc, whatever you like)



Dough

1/2 cup butter (1 stick) (it should be cold and hard)

1 1/2 cups flour

1 teaspoon salt

4-6 tablespoons ice water



-Prepare the filling by browning your meat and spices. WHile it's cooking, stirfry your peppers and onion and veggies. Mix it all together. Taste and adjust seasoning to taste.



-Once ground beef is cooked, add the diced cooked potatoes and heat for 5 minutes. (not too much potatoes). The main purpose is to aborb excesss liquid from the meat mixture, so that you don't end up with soggy meat pies.



-To make dough: Sift together dry ingredients and cut the butter into the dry ingredients with a fork until mixture is crumbly.



-While mixing with a wooden spoon, add water a tablespoon at a time until dough holds together in a ball (you may need more or less water. Just add small amounts at a time). If the dough is crumbly, add a little more water by drops until the dough stays together when you pinch it.

-When dough comes together into a ball roll out the dough until flat.

- Cut out circles (I use a giant cookie cutter for this). If dough becomes sticky or too soft put in fridge for 10 minutes to cool and then take it out again and continue cutting the circles.

-Place meat stuffing in center of pastry circles.

-Fold over and seal using a fork.

-Bake on a lightly greased cookie sheet at 350 degrees for 35 minutes or until lightly browned.


Note: This recipe doesnt exactly make the softest meat pies but im still trying to find out what its lacking...